Are You A Good Listener??
And,
have you had any really good conversations with yourself recently?
We're bombarded with words. So many words.
Other peoples words.
Coming onto this platform every day, means allowing an influx of other people's word to enter your system.
It is so easy to get lost in the world of words. Too easy.
》Someone's advice.
》Someone's data-driven proof.
》Someone else's opinions and, of course, cynicism.
》Some close friends' perspectives.
》Some professionals' outlook.
Etc.
Even reading these words, can feel like lots more words.
Are there benefits?
Definitely!
~Clarity
~Awareness
~Concepts made concrete
But,
I want to know:
WHEN was the last time you sat with yourself? Here's what it would look like:
》》Clarified your words to yourself?
》》Listened to your own voice?
》》Recorded your own voice?
》》Tried to validate yourself to an extreme? (Because you're the only one who knows how much validation you need!)
》》Cared enough to tune in with you?
》》Lowered the volume on other people's voices?
》》Left time in your day to speak with yourself?
When?
If you truly believe, as I do, that the whole world is a reflection of yourself and your relationship with yourself,
What would you need to do to clarify your life to YOU?
Learn to listen.
To yourself.
Really really listen.
⚠️⚠️⚠️We can't even learn to listen to anyone else's words if we haven't learned to listen to ourselves that deeply.⚠️⚠️⚠️
Here are some ways:
➡️TALK out loud to yourself, many times a day.
➡️ Talk to people in your life who listen as much as they speak.
➡️WRITE to yourself, journal, as often as you can.
➡️SPEND time in the quiet, just with yourself for your own company.
➡️SPEND more time in the quiet of your mind.
Learn:
➡️Learn your likes, dislikes, hobbies, and triggers.
➡️Learn your relationships well! Your relationship with food, sleep, friends, family, your body, your emotions...all of it.
✨️✨️✨️Begin to get really really comfortable spending time in your world. You just might find that you enjoy your life a whole lot more. ✨️✨️✨️
Talk to yourself more. And to others, less.
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Which makes me wonder, if you've read until the end, and actually choose to LISTEN to these words, what would it do for you?
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Make it a LISTENING day!
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